Get close to people who are better than you

The fastest way for a person to improve himself is to be with people who are better than you. Because no matter how powerful a person is, his knowledge is limited after all. But others who are better than you have more knowledge and wisdom than you. Sometimes to know an excellent person is to open another window for yourself. Because he will inadvertently express new insights, new views and new ideas, and then bring you new growth and progress.

A person who is better than you in learning can help you expand your knowledge better. A person is better than you in ability and can help you solve problems better. A person is better than you in emotional intelligence, which can help you better handle interpersonal relationships. If you want to be someone, try to be close to them.

Do what makes you feel difficult

At many times, we are always afraid of difficulties. In fact, it may be easy to do simple things. But only by doing difficult things can we have better breakthroughs and improvements. It is also hard work. You will feel relaxed if you try to play a game well, but reading for one hour can enrich your brain and insight. Similarly, it may be effortless for you to insist on playing with your mobile phone before going to bed every night, but it will only become stronger if you insist on running for 5km.

In this world, if one wants to succeed, he must do something harder. For example, keep learning, growing and making progress. In fact, "difficult" is sometimes just a stage feeling. When you continue to do difficult, correct and meaningful things, you will continue to step up a new level in your ability and level. But if you just stay in place, you will not only make progress, but also be in danger of being eliminated. Sometimes, if you don't take the initiative to do difficult things, life will passively give you more leisure and difficulties. A person's biggest enemy is yourself. When you overcome your physical and psychological difficulties, you will win more battles in life that seem difficult to win.

To experience more life

Everyone has his own experience in his life. Maybe some people are doing the same job and living the same day in the same place all their lives. But if possible, while there is still time, go to the outside world more, have a look, feel more and try more. Sometimes, only when you meet more people can you understand more differences in this world. Only by doing more different things can you broaden your thinking and pattern. Only by experiencing more can you have enough heart to face more difficulties and pains in life.

There is a saying: "Life is a process of seeing the world, others and yourself." Only when you see more, will life become broader and broader. Sometimes, a person with an ordinary heart has not only experienced ordinary things, but has experienced too many unusual things, so he has developed a heart that is not afraid of being spoiled or humiliated. Sometimes, a person who is flustered is not confronted with many difficulties and obstacles, but his cognition is too narrow to bear more pressure and wind and rain.

Perhaps a person with rich life experience will suffer more and suffer more. And even experience the sadder things in life. But it is precisely because we have withstood the hardships in the wind and rain that we can face more unknowns and challenges in a better state.